June 6, 2022

What Makes You Feel Sexy?



First things first, what feeling do you want to portray?

Are you going for classic and feminine? Racy and Rough? Girl Next Door Vibes? Ralph Lauren Perfume Ad?

There’s no wrong answer here ladies but deciding on a style really helps you narrow down the never-ending choices of boudoir outfit options. You may even find that you already own your perfect boudoir outfit!

Having trouble figuring out your style?

No problem!

Let’s take a moment to think about the times you feel sexy the most or even just the most often. Is it in his favorite band t-shirt with a pair of cheekies? Maybe it’s in your low cut little black dress that you constantly catch your significant other double glancing when you wear it. It could even be that cozy, chunky, fall sweater that is a few sizes too big, so it falls off your shoulder every time you stand up. Perhaps it’s even your favorite athletic bra and panty set. Think back to the times you feel powerful, exuberant, feminine.

What were you doing?

Bonus points if it’s already in your closet!

Best tip I can give you?

 You don’t have to break the bank.

Lingerie can be expensive but there are some great options out there for completely affordable prices. No matter your shape or size Savage X, Shein, and Adore Me all have gorgeous boudoir outfit pieces that won’t hurt your wallet.

Additionally, you may find that less is more. Sometimes the best boudoir outfit is no outfit at all. Simply grab a white bedsheet and wow him with your organic self!

Be comfortable, feel empowered, and rock the heck out of your boudoir outfit!


Opt for lingerie that flatters your favorite parts. If you've got an impressive rack (yes, we're going there), then choose something that really shows of that feature.

Maybe you're a fan of your own derriere and want to show off the goods, too.

 Choose a piece that accentuates whatever features you love most about yourself. 

Hobbies Help!

Consider what he likes, too. Maybe he loves you in the color red, or he still talks about that baby doll number you wore a couple years ago. If he's into sports or a certain hobby, play into that, as well. 

Boudoir sessions are all about bringing your sexy side, so if you put something on and you feel uncomfortable, move on to the next option. Consider it sort of like searching for the perfect wedding dress. When you put it on and can't help but spin in front of the mirror or think, "Heck yes, I'm sexy!" then that is the piece you should wear on shoot day.